Hard to Miss
It’s been a while
since the last rambling.
Not because there wasn’t anything to say.
The week simply kept moving
faster than I could stop
and turn any of it
into lines.
Tuesday carried Mari and me
from Cardinals at Braves
to Mexico at Live!
without ever really becoming two separate nights.
St. Louis took the first one.
Mexico took the second.
By the time Nero and I dropped her home,
it was late enough
that simple had become beautiful:
a good game,
another good game,
a bite of Taco Mac,
one clean ride home,
with no need to ask the night for anything else.
Wednesday found us at Irby’s
for the USA game,
then back at 325…
for just enough couch
to make an ordinary evening
feel like ours.
Not too much.
Not too late.
Just right,
which may be harder to nail
than any penalty kick
I’ve seen this World Cup.
Thursday brought Ava to Atlanta,
one more Cardinals win for Mari,
St. Louis taking that series
before the week changed crews.
Friday,
Mari delivered Coal
into a weekend of deliberate spoiling
and Orca’s _extremely_ aggressive
interpretation of hospitality.
Then the days folded together.
Ava learning to code
while I remembered
how strange teaching feels…
when it’s about things
my hands stopped having to explain years ago.
Nintendo and cooking.
Mets at Braves,
an Atlanta win on The 4th,
with fireworks loud enough
to put a proper ending on Saturday.
And always,
somewhere under our feet,
four-legged negotiations
over couches,
attention,
and who exactly
was spoiling whom.
Now Sunday is already here.
The dogs and I are taking F1 to Yeppa,
keeping Coal surrounded by noise,
motion,
Orca,
and every available reason
not to notice that Mari isn’t here.
Ava leaves this evening—
the weekend will get quieter,
Coal may finally have enough room
to start missing Mari.
I know I will.
Monday waits on the other side of that—
USA against Belgium at eight,
and maybe,
if the universe doesn’t get clever,
another one of our glorious Mondays.
No guarantees.
For now,
there are engines at Yeppa,
Ava for a few more hours,
two dogs being kept
impressively busy,
and me,
learning that filling every minute
is a pretty effective way
to make the missing
hard to miss.
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