Empty Seat in the Big Apple
Manhattan was Ava’s dream first—
and I knew it the second
we got to LaGuardia… (4 hours early!)
government shutdown chewing through security,
poor kid trapped in the line
while I held down the Admiral’s Club
and pretended not to worry.
She wanted Broadway.
She wanted Spring Break
in capital letters.
So we gave the city
everything it asked for:
Ragtime,
The Outsiders,
Hadestown,
Buena Vista Social Club—
and somewhere between marquees
and bodega light
and the permanent siren hum
of a city that never once apologizes,
I watched her get exactly the kickoff she’d hoped for.
I took a pass on Book of Mormon.
Could’ve gone.
Had the seat.
But I’d been saving that one too long
for the wrong person to be absent.
Wouldn’t have felt right
laughing next to an empty chair…
when I already knew who belonged in it.
We’ll pick our own shows later,
when we decide to light The Big Apple on fire together.
For now, the weekend victories:
Local 42,
a real-deal dive
full of locals giving me that
“you found our church” look,
bartenders who actually care,
and a nine-dollar cheeseburger
that had no business being that good.
A camera rig, too—
because apparently I can’t be trusted
around a Nikon sale.
So now I’m carrying around
enough glass and buttons
to document the whole damn spring,
whether it asked to be remembered or not.
Dispensaries…
self-explanatory.
And then the constant thing,
the one that matters more
than any drink or show or deal:
your thread.
Always on.
Not loud.
Not flooding the phone.
Just steady.
A current.
A pulse.
A slipped-in
“I miss you”
from you,
a few from me,
both of us trying not to make too much of it
while very obviously making everything of it.
That’s the part
that kept finding me—
not in the theater,
not in Times Square,
not even at the bar—
but in the seat beside me
every time I looked over
and knew exactly
who wasn’t there.
Now we point back toward DFW,
Playa tomorrow,
one more beachfront chapter
for Ava’s spring break story.
And me?
I’m already adding another line
to the list of things
I wish you were here to share.
That list is getting ridiculous,
by the way.
We’re gonna have to start crossing some off
before it turns into its own borough.
Until then,
The Big Apple goes in the books
as Ava’s city this week—
and you,
as the empty seat
that somehow still managed
to make the whole place feel full.
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